If someone avoids talking a lot, what is one specific way a master texter adjusts message frequency and depth to build rapport without making that person feel too pressured?

A master texter adjusts by employing a 'low-frequency, high-value, low-obligation' messaging strategy. 'Low-frequency' means sending messages less often, respecting the other person's preference for minimal direct interaction and preventing them from feeling overwhelmed by constant demands for attention. 'High-value' refers to the content of each message being substantive and relevant; instead of trivial check-ins, messages might share a thoughtful observation, a link to an article pertaining to a shared interest, or a light, specific question that invites reflection rather than a simple yes/no answer. This depth ensures that each message offers a meaningful point of connection. Crucially, 'low-obligation' phrasing is used to build rapport without pressure. While messages are open-ended—meaning they invite a response beyond a simple affirmation—they are deliberately phrased to communicate no expectation for an immediate or lengthy reply. For example, a message might conclude with 'no need to reply right away, just thought you'd find this interesting' or 'just a thought, if you ever feel like sharing your take.' This communicates respect for the recipient's space and time, allowing them to engage at their comfort level and on their own schedule. This gradual, unpressured offering of meaningful connection opportunities fosters rapport, which is a harmonious understanding and communication, by demonstrating respect for their communication style while still providing avenues for engagement.